Helen of Troy
Mar 7, 2009 2:25:33 GMT
Post by Vittoria on Mar 7, 2009 2:25:33 GMT
I'm not worried about going to hell for drooling in this case. Been there. Done that. Faced my own inner demon.
LOL! I'm glad you've made peace with yourself, vittoria. Given the chance, you could reform Aggie, I know it.
Tipou, just follow vittoria's lead and embrace the attraction. You know you want to. And it's making Rufus sad that you're still denying it.
Reform Aggie? Hmmmmm.... Aggie giving me a glaring look.... Me glaring back... trying to picture this now... hmmmmm... Aggie backs me into a wall.... I keep glaring... Aggie saying he's going to _____...... Me saying, "Just try it!"... He forces me down onto my knees..... Hmmmm... I'm rather liking this.. Reform? I can play this power game just fine..... It would definitely take time if I tried it.. but I'm not so sure I could change him one iota. Aggie doesn't get violent with women unless he is provoked. That's how I picture him anyway. He wants what he wants when he wants it. That's all. That is his nature.
So, I would simply be in a position of surrender. I might challenge a man like him for the sake of making things interesting as long as he is ok with powerful women, but I would eventually give in when the "dance" is over. All of this is of course, if I actually loved a man like him. I could, but I prefer more gentle men in the end- gentle but as strong or stronger than I am. I'm simply drawn to darkness like moth to flame at times.
By the way, my sisters, rape is not about lust. It is about power. If Helen had totally surrendered herself to begin with, he wouldn't have raped her. I'm not defending his actions at all- just clarifying things I hope.
